Monday, 1 December 2025

Christmas cake … not!

 

My road is being dug up to put in new gas pipes … they had a practise run with the block opposite – ok I thought – that's it …


... but oh no! … hell and begone continues – even on Sundays … I think they're behind … but men at work with toys for boys are mighty noisy!



Do you remember this song sung by Bernard Cribbins in 1962 … The Hole in the Ground


Don't dig there, dig it elsewhere.
You're digging it round and it ought to be square.
The shape of it's wrong, it's much too long,
And you can't put a hole where a hole don't belong.



I've mislaid the will to get things done … but a quick update … I had my hospital consultant 'meet up' … it looks like no op … just various other alternatives … ongoing into 2026.


Record Cover 1972
I just feel exhausted, disinclined to get up and go … so I move forward in my own time frame.  Also just to add to the fun and games ... my right knee is causing me problems, to compound it my left achilles has come out in sympathy ... 



I'm sure my mojo will return – the brain tells me it will … it just needs the body to be more willing or feel able to ...!


I came back today after a couple of meetings to find that said men were digging 'an 'ole' under the block of flats next to me … not the lot opposite: 'twas a big deep 'ole … !!!'



Oh – life is fun!!



Sorry – no cake going here … I can offer you lots of noise, lots of men in very dirty work-gear, lots of road mess, lots and lots of badly maintained road … lots of pretty squiggles on the road …


Oh that looks delicious! c/o BBC

... anyway Christmas is coming – the goose is getting fat … if bird flu doesn't get them first …




Oh dear – I can easily become a misery guts!!


I will get back in the mode …


Hilary Melton-Butcher

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Tuesday, 11 November 2025

Armistice Day … Great War Poets ...

 

The slate stone slab at Poets' Corner, Westminster Abbey, commemorates sixteen of the Great War Poets … unveiled on 11 November 1985, the 67th anniversary of the Armistice.



There's an inscription which quotes from Wilfred Owen's “Preface” to his poems:


My subject is War, and the pity of War.

The Poetry is in the pity.

Poets of the First World War
Memorial in Westminster Abbey




Isaac Rosenberg who died on 1st April 1918 at Fampoux, near Calais, is one of the sixteen poets recorded on the slate.





Rosenberg's self-portrait … he became interested in both poetry and visual art … he has an interesting history – sad, he like so many others, died so young.


Rosenberg's self-portrait
Thinking of what these incredible men and women endured for us … their courage … and suffering.


If … if only … if only … we could respect each other in this world … we are all human … we would live happily together and benefit with this life of ours …



Let's spread peace without destruction of our lives, our culture, our societies …


I list the poets inscribed on the Memorial:

Richard Aldington; Laurence Binyon; Edmund Blunden; Rupert Brooke; Wilfrid Gibson; Robert Graves; Julian Grenfell; Ivor Gurney; David Jones; Robert Nichols; Wilfred Owen; Herbert Read; Isaac Rosenberg; Siegfried Sassoon; Charles Sorley; Edward Thomas.


Hilary Melton-Butcher

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Friday, 7 November 2025

Remembering Cee of Cee's Fun Foto Challenge ...

 

Dan Antion, along with Marsha Ingrao, are posting in her memory … I didn't know her – but I'm happy to support Dan and many blogging friends.


Appropriate links at Dan's site … here 'Remembering Cee'. 




Victoria Falls Bridge under construction in 1905 – as part of the Cape to Cairo railway – an unfinished project in the late 1800s, early 1900s …

Construction across the Zambezi in 1905
... so many won't get to finish their project of life … remember we have whatever time we have left – let us not waste our days live and enjoy …



With thoughts to Cee's family and friends on this her birthday day … as too Dan and Marsha, who have their birthdays today ... with wishes ... 


Hilary Melton-Butcher

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Friday, 31 October 2025

Ghoul … or not as the case maybe …

 

This is Gregor Baci … who, from the 1600s, has been immortalised in this Hungarian painting … sorry – it just amused me today of all days, as one of Wiki's 'Did you Know' …


Portrait of Gregor Baci


Apparently he lived for a year after the event, caused possibly in a joust … the spearhead was sawn off - making life more comfortable for the poor man in the last months of his life ... 



I note that a comparable case was described in the The Lancet in 2010 when a craftsman was impaled by a metal rod falling 46 feet (14 m) from a church ceiling - he survived for five years.

Dracula - 'portrait in Ambras Castle'



I wonder if the rod was dislodged by bats in the Belfry … 


... or perhaps by Dracula ... 



The Baci painting hangs in Ambras Castle, Innsbruck … and was likely held by Ferdinand II, Archduke of Austria, as he had been interested in arms and curiosities.


Life is sorting itself out here … November brings a few NHS aspects and then I hope December will leave me alone til 2026 dawns and a prognosis can be made as to what next …


The Spanish Hall in Ambras Castle
(couldn't resist putting it up - beautiful)
Life ticks along thankfully – can't say I'm desperately thrilled with it … but, though sluggish, I am positive and continue to make people laugh … which is good for one and all …


Enjoy your Halloween treats or horror films … no doubt there'll be a few Eastbournians out and about pranking around – I'll see them, but will be behind closed doors … not misery me, just glad I can get away!


All the best to everyone … I shall see you round about …


Hilary Melton-Butcher

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Saturday, 25 October 2025

Humbleness from a Daughter of our Time …

 

Sue of Elephant's Child recently sadly departed … if anyone would like to see and hear the simple Service, particularly the words for her, I give the link below.



Dinah and her husband from NZ had been over to Australia a few years ago and were able to meet up with Sue and Graham in Canberra – hence their close connection.




Dinah has recently moved but was able to keep some of us in touch with the news re Sue … I seemed to be on that short list: which makes me feel very honoured.




I hope to get back to regular blogging shortly … so this is an interim post for us all to remember Sue – her posts were always full of light and positivity …

A Canadian rainbow


... this week we've had a few rainbows … when I immediately think of Sue as I look and admire nature in the sky …



So below is the link to her Service – which will be up and available for six+ months - while I've also linked to two January posts … her last birthday posts, but it features some of her favourites …


Himself's lap with cats settled in …

'Roos … a roo fix happened …

Murals … in which most featured birds can be found in her city …


Sulphur Crested Cockatoo

her birthday weekend post with real birds: Eastern Rosellas and Sulphur Crested Cockatoos … she was a Capricorn, as I am …


... and lots of yellow … the sun lets us live, while for Sue she loved the cold … when she featured her frozen bubbles, to which I've also linked ... with her thoughts ... 


A Crimson Rosella


... she offers us lots … including 'zombie brains' – courtesy of a bubble or two: appropriate as a thought at this time of year … and also as it's winter – her inner child felt happy and healthy … a few years ago.



Bless you Sue – it's been a pleasure knowing you, and I will remember your Elephant's Child blog … where you encouraged us with humility to stay young, to stay curious, not moan ... but help the next generation towards peace for all.

Narcissi - starting to bloom
in Canberra's Spring

Norwood Park, Canberra - for Sue's service of remembrance ...  

Her birthday weekend 2025 January post ... 

The next week's Sunday Selections post, before she took time off for her health ... 

One of her bubbles' posts in July 2018 ... 


Finally ... Sue's posts are entertaining to read, while she also has lots of books to recommend ... so it'll be worthwhile popping over occasionally, as we remember ... enjoy them!!


Thank you too particularly to Graham, Sue's partner, and to Dinah and her husband their friends in New Zealand ... for keeping us in touch ... 


Hilary Melton-Butcher

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Sunday, 5 October 2025

For Sue - a beacon of warmth to all of us ...

 

She walked this earth, a light in hand...

Encouraging us to think of others …

She slipped away quietly, sadly, swiftly …


Sue - with her curiosity ...


Nothing was same old, same old for Sue …

She lived life to the full, even unto the end …

I know I will remember her for many a-year …


Sue's Canberra balloon


A beloved human with many an interest …

... the addiction that blogging becomes …

... begetting many blogger friendships …



Glories for the glorious
shining one ... 

Books, Birds, Bloggers, Food, Nature, Stories …

Art, Words, Balloons, 'Roos, Health …

... overcoming adversity when it arose … until the shadows came ...



Home for nature's creepy crawlies ... 

... always with truth to the fore, or tongue in cheek when a laugh was due, whichever was the most appropriate for the time … 'Himself' always being thought of …



With reflections and memories for her family - I shall miss her interactions ... 


Sue's blog:  Elephant's Child:  her last post ... - one that she did not know ... 


Hilary Melton-Butcher

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Thursday, 11 September 2025

Smallhythe Place, Ellen Terry's beetle-wing dress, and other pics from my visit ...

 

Smallhythe Place … the half-timbered house built in the late 15th or early 16th centuries … which Ellen Terry, the Victorian actress bought in 1899 and used until her death in 1928 …


Smallhythe Place - front (obvious - sorry!)

... it is now a National Trust property housing many of her items … books (3,000 of them), theatre collections, memorabilia …



View of bedroom - showing brace holding
together corner of room

The house was probably built after a major fire in the harbour and village as it was in 1514 … being originally called 'Port House' …



Another view of the bedroom - again
highlighting the brace
... the property now covers sixty plus acres … including various houses, a theatre, barns, orchards, nuttery, gardens and marshland etc … unusually there's a cellar ... 


Some of the 3,000 books in the
library, others stored away;
the contain lots of marginalia



Back in the day … it was the main house and land in the area … which today it still is, as there are now only a few houses left in what is known as Smallhythe.





Ellen Terry's button box
The home is of a costly construct, with an overhanging upper storey … which over the years has been maintained – as you'll see in the bedroom pics above … it has been 'tied together' with iron braces … denoting the hand of a skilled carpenter/ blacksmith …




Now I'm just giving you some pics ... 


This is a money box made by the local Rye Pottery ... established in the 17th C ...


Staffordshire Pottery established c 1720s


A Staffordshire pottery watch stand ... the watch is put into the 'cup' at night ... so when reaching out the watch is easily available to see the time ... 




The Beetle Wing Dress - this is what we went to see ... amazing isn't it ...


The beetle (genus Sternocera) only lives 3 – 4 weeks, while only beetles, which when they've died naturally, are collected for their wings.




There was an exhibit of beetle wings, with some display pieces for visitors to admire in a more close-up situation ... 



Her banqueting dress used in
the performances of Hamlet


Ellen Terry, the English actress of the late 19th and 20th centuries, refused to wear anything heavy or constricting for her performances – which Alice Comyns Carr, designer, complied with in her designs and the fabrics selected …


Her make-up box


Ellen's original make-up box is on display ... 




Ellen Terry


A sculpture of Ellen Terry by Margaret Winser ... 

Margaret Winser was asked on Ellen Terry's death to make a mould, in order that death masks could be made ... 




Showing the danger of living near the 
local 'river' - that was a busy waterway
in the 1500s
The River Rother runs through East Sussex and Kent and was used for navigation from Roman times ...  


... over the centuries these relatively small streams have had interesting histories ...



A view of the back of Smallhythe Place ... as the marshes became silted up - they were turned into agricultural fields ... 


... then barns etc were added to accommodate the change of the estate's use ...


These are just a few of the pictures I took as we went round ... but they give an idea of the house and its contents ... 


My post from 2016 - gives more information on the Beetle-wing dress ... 


Hilary Melton-Butcher

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Monday, 1 September 2025

Smallhythe over the centuries ... coastline changes, shipyard building ...

 

Here's a very brief history of the rise of royal naval activities from the Anglo-Saxon period to the Medieval era … these depended on where the overseas attacks were happening … north sea areas (Vikings, Angles, Danes etc); Irish Sea areas (Ireland, Isle of Man and Anglesey, Scotland); south coast (Vikings, Danes and Normans) …


Sussex Coastline at Pevensey - c 340 AD
(west from Smallhythe/Tenterden/Rye area)
...from the 9th century (1000 AD) onwards the English nations developed their naval skills, and we know what happened after 1066 AD … but then it appears that fleet mustering almost ceased to exist, possibly because of William the Conqueror's acumen …



But in the next two hundred years or so … the necessity for trade ensured shipbuilding continued, as did the necessity because of the conflict with the nations of Europe … France, Flanders, Venice, Portugal, the Moors … as and when.


Coastline c 1066 AD

The Hundred Years' War (1337 – 1453) included frequent cross-channel raids … and this was when each king started to develop naval fleets.



Maritime activity has been found at Smallhythe from 1326 … probably wool trade related ... but the fast flowing river, the local oak forests, sloping shores provided all that was needed for early shipbuilding.


Coastline before the storm of 1287
(Smallhythe's harbour is within that large
estuary ... as shown)
It is estimated that the River Rother at Smallhythe in Medieval England, during the 1300s, had a depth of about 6.5 metres (21 feet) at high tide, to 2 metres (6.5 feet) at low tide – enough for the largest vessels of the day.



So the development of a shipyard, today four direct miles inland from the sea, actually probably seven to eight miles by water through the marshes, made such a business possible.


Isle of Oxney - we could see from the house
(the marshes are now all silted up - as
agriculture took over)
Across the marshes and in the Pevensey Levels there are many islets, as you'll see here at Smallhythe – the Isle of Oxney is a relatively large island in the Rother Valley – ferry crossings were essential, before bridges and turnpikes started to appear.



The ferry at Oxney was crucial for the important trading town of Tenterden three miles upstream from Smallhythe, which continued to operate into the mid 1600s.


An illustration from the Anthony Roll (a
written record of ships in the Tudor Navy 
{c1540} named after its creator
Anthony Anthony)
The importance of Smallhythe as a shipbuilding centre was at its zenith in the 1400 - 1500s … with three kings placing work there in this era – Henry V, Henry VII and Henry VIII …




After Henry VIII visited in 1537 he commissioned further smaller vessels to be built for the nascence of 'the royal navy' … but with the ongoing silting up of the river and a major fire in 1515 destroying the settlement, its focus turned to agriculture …


Pevensey Levels - similar landscape to
that around Smallhythe
The coast line along the Sussex and Kent counties (as we know them today) was and is always changing, with the tides and storms … the Great Storm of 1287 hit the south coast with such ferocity that whole areas of coastline were redrawn …



I hope you can get an idea of the shipbuilding that occurred, as too the coastline changes that are shown in the various images …





This booklet gave me a lot of background about the history of Smallhythe, its royal connections to the development of the royal navy, and the coastal changes …



There'll be another one or two posts about my visit out to Smallhythe, but this gives an idea of the area that existed here from Norman times, to as we find it today …


Apologies that first image is blurry ... but I'm sure you can get the gist ... 


Hilary Melton-Butcher

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Friday, 22 August 2025

Quick Update - stress over ...

 

Thankfully flat stress is over … I now just need to adjust back to normality … things still need to be done – but the worst is over … thank goodness …


Obviously - a yellow rose!
So this is short and sweet … had a good trip out with friends on Wednesday to the hamlet Small Hythe – which was a medieval ship building port – it's now about four plus miles inland!  Post to follow!




We actually went to see Ellen Terry's beetlewing dress at her old home, now a museum, which displays her theatrical memorabilia and a small theatre. There's about 65 acres of property and land, including orchard …


St John's Church, Small Hythe -
the Priest's House next door, similar
in style to Ellen's home

I wrote quite a detailed post back in 2016 … I eventually ticked off the fact that I have now visited Smallhythe Place!



That's it … I'm mentally adjusting to being free from flat anxiety … amazing what can take it out of one – I now need to see what I can do to help myself before the medics appear on the horizon – they're there if I need them … but in the meantime, I need to do what I can.


The SeeSaw of life -
as painted by Francisco de Goya (1792)

Have happy bank holiday weekends – well we have one! It's going to be a warm time before the Autumn sets in …



So I'm a happier lady now … thanks for your support in the last few months …


Ellen Terry and her Iridescent Beetlewing Dress


Hilary Melton-Butcher

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