Monday, 13 January 2025

17th year and counting, and remembering …

 

I'm a year behind Damyanti (Damyantiwrites .com) … she's just moved into her 18th year – where she mentions that a blog anniversary is a strange thing ...

17th and onwards


... as they (blogs) sound so ancient … but as it's my birthday – that crumbling connotation can be applied – actually I'm really lucky as generally my health is in good nick …


Anemones - my mother's
favourite Cornish flowers

However this isn't really about me … I wanted to mention Lenny, whom many of us know, but who is now having a really difficult time … he had a bad fall … and now he just needs to get past this major problem in his life …





Lenny's logo over the years
Back in June 2011 – those youthful years! about 30 of us, at Sharon's instigation, were asked to write blog posts for Lenny – as he'd just gone back into hospital … since then in his short life he's been in and out …





I chose the Hippopotamus song, by Flanders and Swann, as an amusing, happy go-lucky offering … and we all went off humming Mud, Mud, Glorious Mud … the link to my post is below.


Hippos 'basking' ... 
Lenny was amazing – for some reason he took Mum and I under his youthful wing … and sent us presents and email notes – my mother waxed lyrical about him and his thoughtfulness. He's an amazing lad … I just feel for him now – so please wish him the best …





African tea lights ... 
Re today – another year – another St Hilary!! I'm off to lunch with the family, and with some friends who've spent time in Rhodesia (before it changed to be Zimbabwe) … so we'll have some happy African tales.




Wine and cheese ... I expect we'll 
be having a roast ... 

The accompanying images … send me off to remember days gone by … as the years tick along …




The weather in 1962/63

By golly the cold eventually reached us here in the south east … but of course for us ancients this brought back memories of the 1962/63 season .. which I wrote about in January 2013 – thankfully it looks like it's warming up a little in the next few days …



I'm hoping to get myself into a more youthful gear shortly! … ever hopeful … as my brother said – well we thought we'd do lunch today – no worries re working for us elderlies … yet there's grandchildren my friends are occupied with …





Hardwick (Mum's beloved) with his pals
from Lenny - Muddy Hippo and Zdena
My goddaughter and her twin – my brother's wife's niece – who has just had a baby met up in London at the weekend – great that they're in touch again … fun pics as goddaughter met her twin's (honorary goddaughter's) first baby …




Roses with South African
fynbos
If you don't comprehend this rather odd post – apologies … the brain has been remembering, but obviously gets addled at times!!


Thanks for visiting and in particular remembering Lenny - he's one special lad ... 

Lenny Lee fest of 2011 ... 


Cheers to you all - and happy New Year to each and everyone of us, and our families and friend - 


Hilary Melton-Butcher

Positive Letters Inspirational Stories

7 comments:

Hels said...

Addled brain? Yes I know about that very well :( I had heart surgery a few years ago that I thought was to blame,... but now I think it is just ordinary old age. Today I met an old school friend at the coffee shop whose face I remembered immediately, but neither her single or married name popped into my mind :(

Katerinas Blog said...

Happy birthday!
I think Blogging helps with many of the things you mention,
it's like a diary that reminds you of things you've forgotten!!

Elephant's Child said...

My thoughts go out to Lenny. He has had too many bad times and he has a home in many of our hearts.
Happy Birthday and blogoversary too.
Cherish those memories - and enjoy your lunch.

Yamini MacLean said...

Hari OM
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, HILARY!!! And happy blogiversary, also. You beat me by four years. I had no idea it would be such an absorbing activity, or one that would become a major part of my life! I have always enjoyed your eclectic/erratic posts and look forward to many more 🤗.

I shall place Lenny on my 'list' for positive thoughts and healing vibes this month. Him... and the rest of the world as we head into what I feel is likely to be a rather trying year. YAM xx

jabblog said...

Happy birthday, Hilary - I hope you enjoy your lunch and celebrate in style. I remember your posts about Lenny and hope he will overcome his recent misfortune.

Hilary Melton-Butcher said...

@ Hels - addled brain - it happens doesn't it ...

@ Katerina - thanks so much ... yes to a point it is like a diary of years gone by - a friend reminded me I'd met her 17 years ago when our parents were in the same Nursing Centre - life has its wonderful turns ...

@ EC - thanks so much ... yes poor Lenny - life hasn't treated him very fairly ... thanks for remembering him. I shall enjoy today - lots of memories over the years ... and I will enjoy lunch!

@ Yam - really appreciate the wishes. It's been a fascinating time since I entered the blogging world and have been so fortunate in meeting so many like-minded souls ... lucky us!

Thank you re Lenny - he deserves so much, poor lad - I feel for him ...

@ Janice - I fear for Lenny ... but hope he's not in too much pain. You've got lots going on too ... while I will enjoy my lunch and the camaraderie of family and friends ...

Cheers to you five - and I will be around ... but may be out most of today and tomorrow ... but I will catch up - thanks for thoughts in advance! Happy New Year everyone - Hilary

Nilanjana Bose said...

Wishing you and Lenny good health. Lenny won the critique prize one time at WEP, lovely young man.
Happy birthday, Hilary, enjoy the family time.